Stop Letting Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back

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Hello book lovers! Before starting today’s post, I need to ask you a question: Have you ever stopped yourself from applying for a job because you doubted your capability?

I have, more times than I would like to admit, and I never realized there was a real term for it until hearing one of my lecturers mention it. Imposter syndrome. And I would assume you are lying to yourself if your answer was no to my question. Whether it was just one minor detail or a task you assumed you wouldn’t be good enough for, so many us of have been there. We get it. You’re not alone. So how do we overcome it? How do we stop holding ourselves back, believing we are good enough for a job that made our hearts leap when we read the announcement, and finally apply to any and every job we desire?

I can’t say I have all the answers because I am still working it out myself, but I thought it would be good to share what I have experienced and overcome so far. One of my previous post’s, 5 Things to Do After Graduation Before Starting Your Career, reached more of you than I expected to and the heartfelt messages I received thanking me for making some of you feel less alone was something I never thought I could achieve with this blog. Another self-doubt! So, I decided it was time to write another post that may help more of you, and will certainly help me by finally putting it down and being honest with myself. So let’s begin!

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1. MAKE A LIST – Prepare for job applications. As a big fan of list making, working out a routine for my job applications has really helped me improve my CV and cover letter quality. The part of this system that I recommend the most for you to incorporate is making a list of your experiences that link to what the job description is asking for. For example, I recently applied to a job that requires “good communication skills”. In your cover letter, you don’t want to cover that by simply saying you are good at speaking to people because

  1. Maybe you struggle to be social. #Introvert Life
  2. Everyone talks to people.

So how can you make yourself stand out? Dig deep. For this one, I got to expand on my networking skills gained through the online book community. This included working with publishers to review books and taking part in campaigns, as well as keeping connected with my 5K+ following on Instagram. Not only did this provide a good example to expand on during the interview, but it also showed my passion and drive for the industry. If you guys are interested in learning more about my job application routine, please leave a comment down below so that I know and will write a post about it!

2. READ – Make use of one of your favorite hobbies. Whether that means reading blog posts or picking up a “how to” book, chances are someone has written about what you’re currently going through. Repeat after me: I AM NOT ALONE. As for someone trying to get into the publishing industry, naturally my recommendations are about that so here you go:

  1. That Publishing Blog. Carl (@thatpubblogger) writes brilliant articles covering everything from key skills to get into publishing to questions you might encounter during job interviews. If you can think of it, he has probably written about it.
  2. How to Get a Job in Publishing: A Really Practical Guide to Careers in Books and Magazines by Alison Baverstock, Susannah Bowen, and Steve Carey. I picked this book up just a few days ago and I have already learned so much that has really impacted me. Not only does it cover various ways you can get into the industry, but it also helps you understand what role would truly suite you best and how to make your application the best it can be. Although I did get a degree in publishing, this book has taught me a lot that I didn’t learn during university so I am very thankful I came across it.
  3. Slumbering Sloth Book Nook Podcast. Emma Ronan (@NovelEm16) is an aspiring publisher currently studying English and publishing at university who created a super clever podcast. Once a week, she releases a new episode interviewing someone within the industry, providing tips and sharing experiences about working in a specific field. Never underestimate how much you can learn from someone who has achieved your dream career.

3. LEARN FROM YOUR EXPERIENCES – Make the most of your job interviews, even after they are done. Whether your job interview went amazing or you left feeling defeated, there is always something to take away from the experience. Maybe it’s realizing you say “um” too much, although you are persistent you don’t (relatable), or you were questioned on something you never learned that wasn’t mentioned in the job description and therefore left you feeling embarrassed (once again, relatable). Whatever the case may be, take your wins and losses and use them to your advantage. This is something that I am still working on accepting and using but it really does help bring you out of the dark hole of rejection – just pull yourself together and come back stronger the next time you get an interview!

4. RESEARCH – Find ways to improve your abilities. So you have worked out that you want to go into marketing BUT you didn’t get a marketing degree and/or you don’t have any marketing experience BUT you do have most of the skills the company is asking for EXCEPT a certain software ability. Boy was that a mouthful. So what do you do? Naturally, most of us shrink back and click the X button on the tab – but that’s not the point of this blog post. Find out how you can get that skill! Google marketing internships. Google online training courses.

There’s an abundance of materials across the web, just waiting in the palm of your hands to use them. Yes, you might not stand out in a crowd of those who have already worked in marketing, but if you do get lucky and get an interview, make a point of the effort you put into gaining that one skill you lacked. That can truly make the difference when trying to impress an employer. Remember that they want someone who wants to learn, as much as rejecting you for not having as much experience as the person they chose may discourage you.

5. DON’T BE SHY – Share your struggles and worries with someone, even if it’s just a comment on this blog post. As often as we may convince ourselves that we don’t want sympathy after a job rejection (“because I failed”) or struggle to believe someone has been in the same position before, we’re wrong. Tweet about how you are feeling. Message someone writing about their job in your dream industry and question how they found a way in. Use the internet to your advantage and search for networking events. Hopefully, this blog post itself is helping at least one of you (fingers crossed) and I only wrote it because I’m not being shy. I’m being honest about my struggles because sometimes that’s just what you have to do to feel better. And it always helps to know you aren’t alone, right?

I better wrap-up this post now – turns out I had more to say then I expected. Just please stay positive, don’t give up, and keep trying. I know that this period of job searching is driving you crazy and makes you feel really down sometimes. I totally understand and am going through the same, but letting our imposter syndrome get the best of us certainly won’t get us that job. Am I right? Or am I right? Until next time. x

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Mid-Year Reading Update

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Hello book lovers! I hope that all of you are doing well. Is anyone else completely thrown-off by the fact that it is already June? Where has this year gone?? As someone dealing with the pressures of finding a job and moving, I do not appreciate time flying by – it only adds to the stress! June is also the halfway mark for those of us with reading goals for 2019. My goal is 35 books and I am only at 12, thanks to barely having any ‘fun reading time’ during the final months of my degree, which Goodreads likes to remind me as being ‘3 books behind schedule’. Thanks babe. Continue reading “Mid-Year Reading Update”

May Favourites​

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Hello book lovers! To celebrate today being Friday, I am coming at you with another new series I am starting on my blog – monthly favorites! On the final posting day of each month, I am sharing 5 things with you that I have been adoring. The categories will range from beauty to clothing, books to food and whatever else I discover. So to celebrate this new series, today I am bringing you my May favorites! Continue reading “May Favourites​”

5 Things to Do After Graduation Before Starting Your Career

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Hello book lovers! I am here today with your Friday post. I thought that in the midst of exploring more lifestyle-focused topics, I would write about something that I have been struggling with but know that is VERY relatable for a lot of people. That is – Being done with education (for now). As someone who finished university over two weeks ago, I am currently living in this confused state of wanting to be happy its summer break but also being smacked in the face by the fact that I am meant to have a career now and be a “proper adult”. Continue reading “5 Things to Do After Graduation Before Starting Your Career”

The Series I Binge Read This Summer

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Hello book lovers! Another week, another catch-up review. I have recently been finding it hard to balance my bookish social media and reading due to me getting so into my recent reads so apologies for the inconsistency. I know that sounds crazy seeing as I am on summer break still so I SHOULD be taking advantage of that fact but instead my body seems to be choosing sleep when I do want to be productive, which is not necessarily a bad thing as a university student currently on break. With that being said, I am returning to uni next week with classes starting the week after so I plan on creating a schedule to time out everything and truly make the most of my final year. Yay for only having two days of classes…?  Continue reading “The Series I Binge Read This Summer”

You Need to Read This Book.

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Hello book lovers! Long time no see! I took quite a long break from here due to being in the (very) long process of moving AND having a two-week internship  at Hachette in London (which I will write a post about in the near future) so taking photos, notes, and finding the time to write while juggling all of the craziness and my current reading kick clearly did not work out. However, seeing as I have been reading like crazy, I have so many book reviews to catch up on for you guys and I am so excited – I have had some really good luck with my book choices this summer which means positive content and an encouraged reader (who may or may not be about to fall into a reading slump due to running low on good books but fingers crossed this does not happen as reading is currently my sanity). Continue reading “You Need to Read This Book.”

I Couldn’t Put This Book Down.

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Hello book lovers! Guess who is FINALLY catching up on her growing review pile – this girl! I have been flying through books these past few weeks and yet it some how just hit me that I haven’t been writing any reviews lately – and I need to for the majority that I have read because either I loved them and/or I have a lot to say about them. Thankfully today’s is a read that caught me surprise and I absolutely loved it. I COULDN’T PUT IT DOWN! Continue reading “I Couldn’t Put This Book Down.”

Summer Book Club: Jumping on the Bandwagon

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Hello book lovers! Life has been a bit crazy lately but I finally found the time to work on my blog which means me finally feeling happy with it and ready to focus on my summer posts. Hooray! As those of you who follow me on Instagram (@papercupsandpaperbacks) may already know, I have decided to run a summer book club. I got a really good response from all of you guys on Instagram when I ran a poll which showed me that this truly would be fun and a great idea to keep me on schedule with all of my accounts this summer.  Continue reading “Summer Book Club: Jumping on the Bandwagon”